Amster-Damn!

 

Do you know what's happening in Amsterdam? It's happening in Germany and India now too.  It's going to happen all over the world and the United States mainstream media is not reporting a whisper about it.  Google it or read about it here in Farmers Weekly. 

In a nutshell, these protests by hard working farmers are a response to the governments of European and East Asian countries regarding greenhouse gas emissions, which are being blamed on farmers.  Farmers are being blamed for climate change and are being told to cut down their production (read:income) by HALF! Ridiculous. No Farms, No Food! 

If farmers comply with this demand they will starve and so will we.  Please look into this story and support your local farmers. We cannot let this happen. Boycott the grocery stores and get to your local greenmarkets and farms. Buy directly from farmers if you can. Eat seasonally and see how good you will feel. 

Please follow this story and pass on the information to your friends and neighbors. We cannot let down our farmers who feed and grow our families. Thank you. 

Mussels and Sausage in White Wine, Garlic and Parsley

Combining fish and meat is a passion of mine.  remind me to tell you all about my monkfish braised in veal glace with caramelized cauliflower and golden hunza raisins.  this particular recipe is great for a quick lunch, an impressive appetizer or even an entree when accompanied by chips fried in beef tallow.  Oh my goodness, the chips!  

Mussels are a nutrient dense food that can feed you and your family nicely on a budget, all the while feeling rather fancy.  In my house we call it cheap and cheerful!

Mussels and Sausage in White Wine, Garlic and Parsley.

Ingredients:
1 lb. of fresh, local mussels (washed with beards removed)
4 thick slices dry Italian sausage (or salami ) cut into quarters
2 large cloves of garlic sliced thinly
1/2 bunch fresh parsley chopped roughly
1/2 cup white wine (i used sauvignon blanc)
4 TBS fresh butter

1. place saute pan on a medium to high flame.
2. add 1 TBS butter to pan and melt.
3. when butter has stopped foaming, add sausage and saute for 2 minutes
4. add 1/2 the sliced garlic and saute for 2 more minutes.
5. add mussels and saute, getting the mussels coated in butter, salami and garlic (another 2 minutes or so).
6. when the mussels open, add the 1/2 cup of wine and cover for 3 minutes.
7. uncover and check to see if all the mussels have opened (when a mussels holds tight and does not give up its shell it is not fit to eat. please do not pry it open).
8. remove mussels from the pan with tongs and place in a clean bowl.
9. to the boiling liquid, add the rest of the garlic, 3 TBS of butter and the chopped parsley and allow to reduce for a minute or two.
10. put the mussels back into the liquid to incorporate all flavors.
11. again, using tongs put the mussels back in the bowl, pour the broth with sausage over the top and serve.

enjoy with a glass of the same wine you cooked the mussels in!

Variations:
1. use bacon lardons (or chorizo or pancetta or guanciale) instead of sausage.
- saute bacon lardons in medium - high pan to render fat.
- remove the cooked bacon and hold.
- add garlic to the bacon fat, then the mussels, saute and hit with wine.
- follow the above instructions but put the bacon back in when the mussels go back in before serving.

2. use mixed fresh herbs instead of just parsley.
- roughly chop parsley, cilantro, basil and chives

3. use coconut milk instead of butter and wine
- saute the sausage, garlic and mussels in coconut oil.
- add 1 cup coconut milk and a few thin slices of fresh ginger.
- throw in a kefir lime leaf for good measure (available at most Asian markets).
- add chopped cilantro and whole leaves of purple thai basil (if available) at the end.

Bone Marrow Omelette with Tarragon & Raw Sheep's Milk cheese

Sometimes, creating a great meal is as easy as putting your favorite ingredients together.  It doesn't always work out but when it does, my goodness! The return on time invested is worth it's weight in gold.  That is exactly what happened with this divine dish I have been happily making for my family. Breakfast, lunch or dinner, this one is a hands down winner!

The best part about this recipe is that it was inspired while roasting bones for making beef broth, something I do every few weeks.  The marrow yield from my bones was extraordinary and since we could not eat all that marrow at once we stored it for later use.  The next day I got to thinking about how amazing that creamy, silky, delicious marrow would taste in an omelette, my idea of the perfect food - nutrient dense, texturally seductive and delicious.  Here is the end result of my successful experiment. I think you will really enjoy all of these favors, tucked neatly and sweetly into an envelope of savory pastured egg.

Bone Marrow Omelette with Tarragon & Raw Sheep's Milk cheese
2 fresh pastured eggs
2 TBS fresh Beef Bone Marrow (if you have had the marrow in the fridge, take it out to room temp 1/2 hour before if you can)
1 TBS fresh (or dried) tarragon, roughly chopped or crushed
1 TBS crumbles or 3 small slices of raw sheep's milk cheese (i LOVE feta in this)
pinch course grey sea salt
grass fed ghee for cooking




1. preheat a skillet on medium high heat & add 1 large tsp of ghee (i use an enameled cast iron skillet for egg making)
2. beat 2 pastured eggs, add tarragon and a pinch of sea salt
3. when pan is hot enough, it will be slightly smoking, add egg mixture
4. tip pan and use spatula to distribute eggs evenly and quickly.
5. add marrow & cheese, fold omelette over and slide onto plate.
6. serve alone or with accompaniment of your choice. we love roasted root vegetables in winter or a salad of greenhouse sprouts dressed with olive oil, meyer lemon juice, salt & pepper

enjoy!

 

Pass it On!

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if i had to describe myself i might use the title of a song i wrote recently called "home sweet home-made & hand-me-down." i am a new traditionalist.  sounds mighty devo but i am firmly rooted and a true believer in the art of tradition.  apparently, i am also a "hippie."  i put that in quotes because i was recently called a hippie by a friend while discussing my living situation (24 years in a microscopic west village nyc apartment rental with big tall husband and two rapidly growing children).  my friend wanted to know why we were still in this tiny apartment and why we hadn't left for greener pastures, a bigger space, a house, a place we could call our very own.  equity.  what she termed a solid investment or something we could pass on to our children when that time came.  i thought about it for half a second and blurted, "i'm good.  i have enough right here. owning big stuff seems like a drag. why would i want to pass that down to my kids when i already pass on priceless amounts of love and tradition every single day."  

she didn't quite understand what i was saying until i explained what my legacy to my children is: recipes, culinary skills, kitchen know-how, clean food resources, decades long relationships and bonds with farmers, fisherman, butchers and other sustainable growers, flavorful memories, vibrant health and the nourishing traditions of home that they will carry with them wherever they go and pass on to their children and grandchildren. the type of investment in health and wellness that unfortunately most people don't see as valuable or worthwhile anymore.  that's probably why we are seeing so many parents passing on inherited "taints" like eczema, depression, addiction, diabetes, ADHD, dyslexia, anger, endocrine disorders and many other chronic degenerative illnesses today.  we need to take the emphasis off "things" and money and put it back on solid ground where it belongs....the perfect roast chicken, health restoring and life giving bone broth, probiotic rich cultured foods, a chopped liver that brings back the days of great grandmothers' passed, a connection to a higher power and mother nature that is as solid as the roots of a 200 year old tree that you know will bear fruit year after year.  what i pass on is an embarrassment of riches that will feed my family physically and spiritually for generations to come.  equity that is heartfelt, homemade, happily handed down and held in highest regard.  

the handing down of traditions, skills, recipes, clothing, dances, songs, domestic heirlooms like candle sticks, photographs, artwork, tablecloths and other linens, dishes, pots and pans etc. is quickly becoming a lost art.  once upon a time these things were called a dowry and they went with a bride when she was married.   as a matter of fact, animals were once part of the inheritance and they were prized for milk, meat and muscle in the field.  i am not suggesting we bring back dowries by any means but i am lobbying for these assets to be looked at as having real intrinsic value again.  we have become a society that places value on material goods that are disposable and obsolete in a matter of months.  this skewed perspective on what is worthy of our attention has brought us to this place where mothers do not think it is important to impart kitchen or marketing skills to their children (boys & girls).  fathers have lost their desire to teach their kids (boys & girls) how to pick up a hammer and nails to create and fix what can be home-made and fixed.  in my tiny little kitchen, every creation is a potential inheritance for my children.  when i make a new recipe for a dish or figure out a new flavor combination that wows the masses, i feel like i just put money in the bank.   a deposit that we will be able to draw on forever and will always pay dividends.   it's a no risk, win-win situation.

this might seem silly to some but i am confident that what i pass on each time i bring my Family2Table is obvious and valued.  true love, first and foremost.  passion, respect, creativity and resourcefulness.  with each plate i serve i feel certain that my children are assimilating each physical and emotional nutrient and will  someday feel the need to recreate all those flavors and feelings for their families, making them strong and wealthy beyond all the riches in the world.  because at the end of the day, you can't take it with you when you go so, pass it on and enjoy!

and now i pass on to you The Perfect Roast Chicken

herb roasted chicken

- preheat oven to 425 degrees -- go to 450 if you can without the oven smoking.

- place whole, pastured chicken (3.5-4lbs) in a roasting pan and leave at room temp for half an hour to take the chill off

- liberally season the whole chicken including cavity with sea salt & pepper

- chop herbs (fresh thyme, rosemary, mint and basil -- other options are tarragon, parsley, marjoram, oregano and chervil) and coat the entire chicken.

- use herb stems to put inside of the cavity.  you can put whole garlic, lemon, orange, onions, anything aromatic inside that chicken to perfume and flavor the meat.

be creative and use this as a way to use everything -- even vegetable ends and scraps that you might not have any other use for.

- place chicken in the oven legs first and roast for 20 minutes

- after 20 minutes turn down heat to 400 and rotate bird, legs facing door.

- after another 20 minutes turn down to 350 and turn chicken sideways and leave for another 30 minutes.

- after 1 hour, remove bird and let rest for at least 15 minutes before you cut it up and serve allowing the all the juices to disperse nicely throughout the bird.

Buttermilk Corn Cakes

corn bread is one of the simple pleasures in my life.  It is also a staple of the pioneer kitchen from the 1800s.  ma ingalls was a big fan of corn cakes and i am a big fan of ma ingalls.  a versatile, filling treat used to sop up gravy (meat drippings), egg yolk, butter, syrup, bacon grease, BBQ sauce and more, corn bread is your friend. i turned to corn bread and developed this particular recipe when i stopped eating wheat almost four years ago.  corn is a flavor that resonates with me on many levels and just like me, it happily goes both ways: sweet and savory.  when i want a "biscuit" with my eggs these buttermilk corn cakes are just the ticket.  when my children want what we call "afters,"  these cakes, fried in pastured lard and grass fed ghee are a classic with a thick schmear of maple cream or jam and an ice cold glass of raw milk.  my husband prefers his corn cakes topped with german style pickled vegetables, raw sour cream and chives.  i am happy to enjoy them with cumin spiced avocado mousse (not unlike guacamole) with chopped cilantro, a squeeze of lime and course sea salt.  very much like an arepa, a flatbread made of ground maize dough popular in venezuela or columbia, the corn cake is an individual, grain-free bread at home on the breakfast, lunch, brunch or dinner table.  they are marvelous for appetizers and hors d'oeuvres. 

the following recipe can be adapted and expanded to include, cheese, herbs, spices, banana (or any fruit) puree and is lots of fun to play with so go ahead and have a ball.  the simplicity is almost ridiculous and the value is priceless.  these cakes can be made and eaten right away or they can be stored in an airtight container right on the counter for a few days and then pan toasted before eating and serving.  OH!  if you love smoking meats or slow braising meats, these cakes are a must for your repertoire.  they are a cool twist on southern corn bread and will hold even the most saucy pulled pork or brisket if you are looking for an edible carrier for all that summer lovin.'  if they are going past two days, i recommend putting them in the refrigerator to avoid spoiling.  if you come up with any interesting new recipes or ways to serve the cakes when you bring your Family2Table, please email me and let me know! enjoy! xx

BUTTERMILK CORN CAKES

2 cups organic corn flour (corn meal)
1/2 tsp. aluminum free baking soda
2 pinches of sea salt
1 1/2 cups cultured (raw) buttermilk

combine dry ingredients
add buttermilk and mix to a thick batter

1. heat a cast iron skillet on medium flame till very hot
2.  add 1 Tbs. pastured lard and 1 Tablespoon grass fed ghee and melt.

3. When fat is hot,  add one large soup spoon of batter to the pan per cake.  I do 3 at a time.
4. after about a minute and a half to 2 minutes, flip.  depending on the pan and the heat source, this can vary so please watch what you are doing and never let the pan or the cakes burn.  you want them golden and crisp, not black and burnt.
5.  when they are golden on both sides, put them aside (or eat them while they are hot!)
6. enjoy with your condiments and accompaniments of choice.

I'll Drink to That!

this week i had the good fortune to raise my glass in celebration many times.  it started on monday with my birthday in the form of a spritzer made from passionfruit juice, gerolsteiner naturally sparkling mineral water and a slice of lime.  super refreshing! tuesday i toasted a paper cup full of my home-brew of choice, vanilla-cardamom kombucha, at greenlight bookstore in fort green, brooklyn. i was there to do a cooking demo for the recent release of Nina Planck's Real Food Cookbook. i am very proud to have contributed an essay and the drinks section to this beautiful book.  wednesday i sipped fermented beet kvass the color of blood, sweet and silky and infused with fresh tarragon as i made the announcement that my band, the emily duff band, had officially released our first single, now available for sale online at bandcamp.com and then ran out to gig at arlene's grocery on stanton street.  thursday found me and my entire family with ball jars full of gingerade at murray's cheese, once again excited and cheering for the official release of Nina's book.  finally friday, i will churn up a frothy glass tumbler full of a vanilla balsamic raw milk egg cream and thank my lucky stars that i have the night to relax and enjoy my family!  

i don't know about you but i am a child of the 60s and was raised drinking hoffman's and dr. brown's sodas, seltzer brought by irving the seltzer man in beautiful blue glass bottles, egg creams from seymour's luncheonette and chocolate milk made with u-bet chocolate syrup and pasteurized milk.  in the 70's we took the nestea plunge, went to the moon with tang and got our country time on with "convenient' powdered drinks.  who knew?

these days my life does not include soda, powdered drinks and not much from a bottle you buy at the store. we stay away from vegetable and fruit juices unless we juice them ourselves. as a chef, i have found that creating your own drinks can be as creative as putting together a three course meal and more economical too!  kombucha has become a popular trend these days and i am very happy to see that.  a fermented sweet tea, kombucha is a restorative cold drink that supplies, enzymes, probiotics and helps to detoxify the liver.  not to mention that it tastes great!  in the store you will pay anywhere from $3.50 up to $5 for a 16 oz. bottle.  by brewing your own at home, that same 16oz. bottle costs just .50!  not to mention the fact that you get to make up your own flavors and have a bit of microbiology going on in your own home.  our favorite flavors are lemon-mint, watermelon-basil, lemon-ginger-raspberry, straight-up strawberry, pink grapefruit, concord grape in the fall, vanilla-cardamom and cinnamon-spice. my children love to see the process of fermentation going on in our home kitchen.  sometimes they will have an idea for a new flavor and want to take me to the market to find all of the ingredients to make that flavor happen.  at the end of the brewing process they can't wait to taste the final product and share it with friends and family.  talk about a community building project! the brewing process takes roughly 2 weeks, give or take a few extra days for the secondary fermentation to flavor and build up "fizz."  for a really special treat, add a few generous shakes of angostura bitters and a generous squeeze of lemon to your kombucha for a cocktail that quenches the thirst and helps with digestion!  if i am going to spend money on a store bought kombucha these days, sometimes we drink faster than we can produce,  i tend to gravitate toward high country kombucha.  their wild root and ginger flavored kombucha is top notch! while i am here....kombucha in all it's flavors and forms is also great to cook with.  remember my post on ginger kombucha battered fish and chips?  check it out!  

other fermented beverages we like to make at home are beet kvass which calls for freshly peeled and cut up beets, liquid whey, sea salt and filtered water.  this rich, silky drink is a great tonic to start the day and is a great blood builder - not to mention a great base for a salad dressing!  my son loves to make fermented ginger ale.  it is different from bottled ginger ale in that is has no C02 added. it gets it fizz from liquid whey, rapadura sugar and natural fermentation.  fresh ginger, fresh lemon and lime juice and some chopped dried apricots lend a beautiful sweetness to the brew.  we often add fresh mint or thai basil to create a freshness when we serve it.  it goes so well with spicy thai dishes and home made sushi.

the egg cream is something that i hold near and dear to my heart.  it is a soda fountain experience that brings back memories of my old neighborhood in queens, my grandma sylvia and my uncle mitch. in the old days it was a combo of pasteurized milk, u-bet chocolate syrup and fountain seltzer.  these days i make it with a vanilla balsamic syrup i make by reducing balsamic vinegar with a split vanilla bean till it's a thick syrup.  you can store this in the fridge for ages and it will be good to go, no worries.  in an 8 oz. glass i use 3 TBS. syrup, then fill the glass half way with raw milk or raw milk kefir, then slowly add naturally sparkling mineral water while vigorously stirring to create a head of foam on the top.  this drink takes me right back to my childhood and begs me to eat a good kosher beef hot dog and knish.

another summer favorite, and a recipe i contributed to Nina's book is a cucumber lemonade with ginger, mint and stevia.  fill up a pitcher with good filtered water and add a generous handful of thinly sliced cucumbers, a TBS. of freshly grated ginger and 1/2 cup fresh squeezed lemon juice.  feel free to use lime, orange, grapefruit, etc....find your favorite.  add stevia to taste in very small amounts (it can go wrong quickly) and then mottled fresh mint leaves - basil is beautiful too.  you can let this sit out in the sun to infuse if you like and then refrigerate or just serve over ice.  a major refresher.....for the adults, add chilled vodka or gin. makes a nice summer martini!  garnish with pickled cucumbers or preserved lemons.

did you know that drinking your breakfast is an awesome way to start your day?  here is our favorite smoothie recipe:

1 cup of either (raw) milk, kefir, yogurt, colostrum, etc.
1 cup raw coconut water
2 crazy brown ripe cold bananas
1 tsp. camu camu powder
1 tsp. barleans greens powder
1/2 tsp. macca powder
3 capsules dr. ron's organ delight emptied in the jug
2 raw pastured egg yolks
1 cup frozen berries of your choice

whip it all up with a hand blender, vitamix or counter top blender and enjoy!

before i sign off and head to the kitchen to create something beautiful and delicious for lunch i want to remind y'all that what i mostly put into my glass these days is pure, clean water.  i don't go overboard and swill it all day long but i do get what i consider to be my fill and what's more important it is clean and pure.  we have a three stage counter top filter that we purchased at pure-earth.com that removes flouride, chlorine, bacteria, sediment, etc.  there are many types and brands on the market but i do recommend that you have a look and see what works best for you and your budget.  some of the popular, excellent filters come from radiant life, berkey and pure earth.  our bodies depend on water, please make pure and clean water a priority for you and your loved ones.

kombucha and water kefir are a great alternative to store bought sodas that are full of chemicals, refined sugars and unwanted additives. herbal teas, tonics, smoothies and ades are health restoring, thirst quenching and delicious!  what we can do with drinks in the creative kitchen is a super satisfying, loving and innovative way to save money and introduce new, fresh flavors when bringing your friends and Family2Table and i will always drink to that!  cheers & enjoy!!

KOMBUCHA 101

equipment/ingredient wise you need very little.
- 1 gallon glass pyrex bowl or 1 gallon glass anchor jar (an old fashioned candy jar)
- 2 air tight glass bottles to store the kombucha in the fridge (i use the Ikea bottles. they are tight and cheap)
- a box of 365 brand organic black tea from whole foods
- a bag of 365 brand organic evaporated can sugar from whole foods
- masking tape
- a tea towel
- a stainless steel pot to boil and brew
- pure filtered water
- a starter culture (from a bottle or a friend)

recipe
1. place 3 quarts of filtered water in a pot and bring to a boil
2. add 1 cup organic evaporated cane juice (i use whole foods organic 365 brand) to the pot and stir till dissolved (about 5 minutes)
3. add 4 tea bags (i use whole foods organic 365 brand) to the pot and turn off flame and cover
4. when tea has cooled to room temp (at least 5 hours - i put mine up at night and let it brew and cool till morning)
5. remove tea bags and put tea into 1 gallon capacity glass bowl
6. add 1/2 cup kombucha (starter to inoculate)
7. place scoby on top - it will float - sometimes it sinks. that's okay
8. using masking tape, make a criss-cross over the bowl and date with marker
9. put tea towel over the bowl and put in a warm place (i put mine on top of the fridge)
10. check after 5 days (the sweetness and the tea flavor should be gone) depending on the temp. in your house,
warmer cultures faster, it could take up to 10 days.

to harvest
remove scoby and baby - which will be attached to each other - and place liquid in bottles with air tight stoppers.
refrigerate and drink.  save 1/2 cup for next batch and now you have a scoby to share or put in a glass jar and refrigerate
with some kombucha until someone asks you for it.
(you can do a secondary fermentation in these bottles if you want it extra fizzy.
instead of putting it in the fridge, put an extra teaspoon of sugar in each bottle
and let stand for another 3 days before refrigerating).

as always, if you have any questions about the drinks please contact me at emilyduff@mac.com

cheers!

emily

Food is Parenting

the other day, while walking down the street, my 5 year old son, henry saw a child eating a neon blue frosted cupcake. as we strolled passed the child I watched his eyes narrow and focus on the glowing cake.  my 8 year old daughter, sylvia saw it too.  as we walked away sylvia said to me, "that was disgusting. have you ever seen blue like that in nature?" I smiled and said "nope."  then henry quickly chimed in, "I want a cupcake like that. how come we never get cupcakes like that?" to which sylvia immediately responded, "oh henry! have some self-respect!"  I had to stop myself from laughing out loud.  henry is at that age when laughing makes him feel a bit self conscious because he feels as if he is being laughed at.  so, in order to protect my little man's pride, i smiled ear to ear, put one arm around my sylvia tenderly, and walked on feeling very proud, knowing that my parenting choices were making a real impact and that my children were hearing me loud and clear.   i feed my family the way i do and teach my children proper nutrition because i want them to love themselves, to value themselves and to be able to be of value to others. 

when i became a professional cook, feeding my customers was all about freshness and flavor.  as a parent feeding children, my focus is more on freshness, flavor and nutritional value.  my desire to feed them the cleanest, freshest, most delicious local foods, chock full of vitamins, minerals, live enzymes, love and proper nourishment became my quest from the time they were born.   looking back, i realize that should have been my goal throughout life and that eating the way we all eat now, since the kids have come along, is the way to eat before and especially during pregnancy since that is when we actually start feeding our babies.  creativity is also a key factor and will always remain high on my list since chicken will always be chicken and a potato will always be a potato. it's what we are able to do with those ingredients and the creativity we bring to them that takes them to the next level of excitement by allowing them to express their innate flavor and maximum nutrient values while we ask them to also perform exquisitely in our manipulation, preparation or "theater" of taste.  when we retain this creativity in our cooking, we remain engaged with cooking as an art or a craft. this challenges us or pushes us as the "servantless" cooks that we are in order to find the opportunity in every meal. the privilege in every act of culinary expression we put out on the table.  to please ourselves, our friends and our families with the most sensual act of giving that we can perform on a daily basis - in public.  as you can tell from just this last sentence, i consider cooking, prepping, eating and sourcing clean ingredients to be major, super-important, life giving, life sustaining, life changing, comforting, creative, playful, meditative, healing and more. simply put,  food is parenting.

when i became a parent, nothing became more apparent than the importance of feeding and nourishing. as a breast feeding mum i was reminded, every two hours, how essential this was (my son fed every two hours around the clock for 18 months!).   when you are the primary food source you are enlightened to the primal instincts involved in the growing of a healthy child's body and mind.  the physical and emotional attachment to nourishment is an equal opportunity for both parties to witness the miracle of life and growth as nature intended. following the path of Fresh, Local, Organic and Whole beyond the breast is always best.  my kids know the rule of thumb in our house when it comes to what we eat.  if people have been eating it for 200 years...go ahead, it's all good!  parenting (the verb), comes in many different forms.  we might then ask ourselves what it means to parent. in my eyes, to parent is to nurture, to nourish, to feed, to teach, to lead, to inspire, to cultivate, to raise, to look after, to bring up, to rear, to take care of, to love, to cook, to kiss, to play, to wash, to mend, to shlep, to read, to heal, to be present.....you get me?

i have waged major wars with my own parents regarding "treats" that they felt compelled to give to my children that are just not allowed in our family.  they claimed that i was depriving my kids of "kid food" and that it was their birth right to have these things just like i did when i was a kid.  my reply to them is "nope. we don't eat that."  i don't apologize and i rarely give in.  some even say  "but it's just junk food! everybody gets to eat junk food once in a while."  to which i respond, "there is junk. and there is food. we eat food."  as the mother of my children, their birth right is to be healthy, happy, safe and loved.  my job is to make sure they have all that and a bit more.  no where does refined biotech sugar, potentially cancer causing genetically modified corn, cottonseed, canola and soy, antibiotics and hormones from factory farmed meat, eggs and milk ever enter the picture.  the health & behavioral problems that go along with cheap, fast, junk are no child's birthright and every parent's worst nightmare.  as a parent it is our job to protect our children from this stuff.  and it is everywhere.

as a parent i feel there is no greater opportunity to teach our children than through the blessings of food, a medium that always conveys a good old-fashioned, farm raised lesson.  we can teach them how to read by taking them to market, we can teach them math by having them help pay the shop keeper or the farmer for the food and then follow recipes with us. we can teach them agriculture, farming and other aspects of the sciences when we take them to buy food from farmers and then teach them about how our body digests and utilizes the nutrients in our good food.  we engage their social skills at the dinner table whether we are home or at a restaurant and we certainly teach them self respect and self esteem when we teach them how to prepare, cook and eat well via proper nutrition.  we teach them that good food will build a strong mind and body. one that will be able to run, jump, play, think and create.  when sylvia commented about the neon blue cupcake being disrespectful to our bodies, i felt vindicated in my "food as parenting" style and how it is helping my children form their healthy sense of self in this often confusing and toxic world.  

think about it, what we put in our mouths and into our bodies is the most intimate relationship we have with another organism from the day we are born.  The food we introduce into our inner ecosystems becomes us. our cells, our fuel, our microbiome, our internal and external self.   what we put in the tank will determine our health, wellness and behavior.  and yet most  people do not even know who's growing their food.  most people don't even know what is in their food!  This brings up the very important concept of priorities.  Everyone has their own set or list in their appropriate order.  in my opinion, especially because of the times we are living in - GMOs, rampant allergies, autism, environmental toxicity, Fukushima (anyone talking about this, hello?) - making solid food choices is more important than ever and therefore sits at the very top of our family's list of priorities. as a matter of fact when we travel, i always search out where the cleanest food sources will be when we get there.  we always travel with our own food and this is also a huge lesson for our children. 

When I teach my cooking classes to parents I like to begin the session by asking a few questions to set the stage.  "how many parents spent a lot of time finding your family pediatrician?"  everyone's hand goes up quickly. then i go on to ask, "how many parents spent a lot of time and did a lot of research on a super safe family car, car seat and stroller?" again, everyone's hand flies up proudly and quickly. they all beam, actually. smiles all over the room.  then i slip this one in...."how many parents devoted all of those hours to finding your family farmer?"  at this point the room gets really quiet and they look quite confused.  not one hand (maybe one or two if i am lucky) goes up and i say..."really...i'm so surprised. you're all such amazing, dedicated, hands-on loving parents and you don't know the people who are growing the food you feed your children.  the person or people who plant, grow, harvest, kindly nurture and then humanely kill and healthfully process the beautiful food you and your family eat at least three times a day."  the crazy fact is that to most, this person is a total stranger!  

think for a minute about those people who spend tens of thousands of dollars on high performance vehicles.  i bet you would never catch them putting junk in that tank. it would ruin the machine. and yet, millions allow junk to go into their children's tanks at every meal.  children have never been sicker, more learning disabled and developmentally delayed and depressed than they are today.  why?  because they are malnourished from disrespecting their bodies with junk and calling it food.  this is why i teach cooking. this is why i help parents learn how to feed their families properly.  i used to think that i was a chef and a cooking instructor. now i realize that i also teach lifestyle and self love.  i parent my students who then parent their children via food and proper nutrition.  we must parent those who, perhaps, were not parented properly with food when they grew up.  parenting is also teaching, yes? food is all about the teachable moment. use it.  every meal you cook.  every meal you eat. every time you sit down with your family is another opportunity to be an effective parent. wow. how lucky we are.

by giving children a solid foundation in proper nutrition and modeling good nutritional habits we are teaching them to love and respect themselves. we are raising little people with big confidence. my 8 year old understands that!  my 5 year old will too, i have no doubt.  i also know that as my children grow older they will use this foundation to make good decisions when it comes to situations that might harm them.  i hope that by teaching my children the importance of good food and nutrition they will respect themselves enough not to sucomb to peer pressure that might harm them in the future.  food is parenting in all the best ways -  food is communication. food is nourishment. food is health. food is happiness. food is love. food is community. food is tradition and so much more.  unfortunately traditions are being lost and food is becoming less important.  families don't always eat together anymore. we spend less of our annual budgets on good, real food, and cooking is becoming a lost art.  all the best parties wind up in the kitchen. why?  that is where the hearth is. the soul of a home beats strongest and truest from the kitchen.  hippocrates said let food be thy medicine.  i say that our best hope to heal is through our children. therefore, in my equation, parenting is my soul food and food is parenting.

there is an old expression that refers to something (an idea, a value, a concept, etc) being "in the water" meaning that it is pervasive, everywhere.  parenting, in my opinion, is "in the food."  to raise children well we must feed them well and teach them to feed themselves, with love and respect.  love and respect for self, love and respect for nature, love and respect for others and love and respect for life.  in doing this we will be raising generations of people who honor the natural cycle of life and consider their bodies sacred and worth caring for.  when we really think about what we put into our bodies we realize that what goes in is what we get back. teaching children why we eat fresh, local, organic, whole foods as nature intended and not genetically engineered science experiments will not only grow stronger healthier children but also produce generations of environmental activists, sustainable farmers and gentle souls who care about the planet they live on and the life that inhabits it.  they are smart people who deserve to know that eating well has a huge impact on the world and why. in august i asked sylvia what she wanted to be when she grew up.  without any hesitation she said, "a farmer's wife." i asked her why and replied "farmers are heros. they work hard to grow our food. i want to marry a hero." smart girl.

i treasure the Family2Table moments in my little home.  we say a prayer of thanks, appreciate each other and then talk about our days.  they are the sweetest moments when i feel most alive. sometimes they can also be the moments when i feel the most vulnerable too, because thank goodness, we are human.  in the end i know that communication, nourishment, health, happiness, community, love and tradition - in other words, real food, will heal whatever ails me.  our children and our planet are our greatest natural resources. love, respect and enjoy them! xx